MARRIAGE

Marriage in itself is not hard nor difficult but many on both genders are going into it with wrong mindsets. How do expect to make a right from a wrong or plenty wrongs.

You lie about your age

You lie about your income

You copy and paste other people's visions and ideas without proper understanding.

You enter with the mindset that Marriage is the cure for loneliness.

Many see it as a means of an income

You see it as pass way to having sex when you feel like.

You have no respect for anybody

You talk to him or her as it pleases you

You expect so much from the other person, yet you give little or nothing.

You want things always done your way

Your family means so much to you but you want him or her to neglect his or her family while focusing on you and yours.

You don't want to be productive nor add value not even to yourself.

You are just there, forming Married Man or Woman.

Let me remind you or inform you what Marriage is all about.

Marriage is about openness

Marriage is about Trust.

Marriage is about compromise

Marriage is about Love

Marriage is about sacrifices

Marriage is about Forgiveness

Marriage is about patient

Marriage is about two People coming together to build a destiny.

Marriage is a place of WE not I

Marriage is about preferring one over the other.

Until you know and understand what it is and that entails, DO NOT MARRY.

Marriage is first and foremost for companionship before procreation. If your sole aim of wanting to get married is because you want to have a child or Children, then you are marrying for the wrong Reasons.

Marrying Right is Heavenly but marrying wrongly is hellish.

There are a whole lot of bitter and damaged adults as a result of wrong choices in Marriage or Relationship.

NEVER Wave away Warning signals... Nobody changes overnight.

What you don't eat and will not eat, don't use your teeth to share it for Children.

Don't be another reason why someone won't believe in Marriage. Be reminded also that, for every one Marriage that has failed or is failing, there are many more that is working.

A good home is possible but it takes TWO Committed individuals to make it work.                                                            #Haveabeautifulnightrest🌹🌹.MARRIAGE