DEAR SINGLES.
Dear singles in a marriage - bound relationship, kindly do this assignment with your partner. Ask each other to write a short sincere essay, at least 100 words (might be more) on what marriage means to them, why they want to get married /expectations in marriage. Preferably, should be handwritten. Writing with your hands has a way of helping you with a genuine flow and making you express yourself crudely. They can snap it to you if you are apart. Take this assignment seriously please, it will help you to know so much about your partner's mindset and point of view. One of the problems we have these days is the assumption that our partners sees marriage the way we see them or that they want the same things we want in marriage and when those expectations are not met, problems begin. So before you go too deep, make sure you know what your partner's view, idea or expectation of marriage are. Match it with yours and see if there are areas you can reach a compromise without loosing